Disciplining Children: 3 Tips for Teaching the Benefits of Hard Work

"stick with something, even if it's boring, and you'll be successful." Why do children fight this tooth and nail lesson of life?

for two reasons: (1). We are hardwired to "want is now" not tomorrow, and (2) parents are working too hard, not enough to interfere with the success and satisfaction

look at a minute to understand the child's innate need for want it now before we get tips for helping your child establish the benefits of hard work.

From the time we are born until the time we die, the request for a postponement of satisfaction of each of us faces. It is a learned skill of life. And if it is not taught well, we'll have a lot of failures and accidents. If you need proof, read the daily news. Almost every day we find a story about some athlete, a Hollywood star or a community that is struggling with a drug-safe way to get satisfaction immediately disastrous results.

Hard work provides a great opportunity to teach children to put off what they want sada.Ključni ingredient to include in its curriculum is enjoy . Here are three tips for establishing a habit of hard work.

1 to make the work successful. The failure seems to work too hard, and mixed success. Six-year-old Emma's mom gives this worn-out mini-lecture: "Why do not you pick on me?" Instead, mom should say, "Let me help you pick up." Over time, it can stop support. The lesson:. Start with success, and gradually help your child to work hard independently

2 Mix work with pleasure (to play and relationships ). Hard work without pleasure is too much pain without gain. Mix work and play, which includes good relationships, that is abundant life. No chores as a family under threat after. During dinner, family time Friday, celebrating each family member is hard work. Make sure there is enough time to play yourself and with friends. Screen time should be a small part of the game. Lesson: Establish a healthy balance between play and work, from preschool on

3 Focus on effort than results. control efforts much more productive than trying to control the result of the efforts. During three weeks of Adam's science project preparation, to insist on his best effort. As part of each project is finished, praise his efforts. Lesson: Teach your children to put maximum effort, it is the heart work hard and produce excellent results

Conclusion: Mix in the success and satisfaction with work to help children feel and experience success.